Are Women Just Teasers?

hi, im 28, have been single for 8yrs. Back at uni and its great. nowdays i see all women have boyfriends even for the sake of havin someone. women are crazy for me at uni, like we go out for lunch/drinks all the time, but they already have boyfriends at home to have with, am i just wasting my time? i mean this 1 girl came ova 2nite, but then he had to go home because her bf was pestering her, am i wastin my time with these girls? i hate clubbin as its a sausage fest, its a place for women to go 2, not us single guys. so what do i do? where do i find single eligible women who luv ?